TALK TO SHARI

Psychoanalyst for individuals, couples & groups

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Why therapy?

A practical reason to consider psychotherapy is because you think you may benefit from it, along with a few examples below:

  • Your family, friend, coworker or spouse/partner suggested it

  • Your relationships are currently strained

  • Your anxiety is negatively impacting  your behavior

  • You constantly feel lonely

  • You are considering changing your career goals

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About Shari

My approach is attentive to the intersections of culture, sexuality, family history, and the unconscious. I believe meaningful psychological work requires space not only for suffering, but also for contradiction, desire, imagination, and the possibility of transformation.

Alongside psychoanalytic thought, I maintain a deep interest in ancestral knowledge, spirituality, and the symbolic languages through which people attempt to understand their inner worlds. These perspectives invite curiosity about the relationship between psychic life, cultural inheritance, and the search for meaning.

Alongside my clinical practice and scholarly writing, I teach Dreams I at the National Institute for the Psychotherapies (NIP), where I completed my psychoanalytic training. I also serve on the faculty of the Stephen Mitchell Relational Study Center, teaching in its OYP and Relational Theory in Clinical Practice programs. Previously, I taught Self & Other: Race, Culture & Psychoanalysis at Union Theological Seminary.

Together, we can become curious about what has been difficult to know, feel, or articulate.


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Call
718.866.3549

Email
shari@talktoshari.com

 

Downtown  Brooklyn/Fort Greene, NY  11201

In-person & virtual sessions available

Out of network insurance options available

PUBLICATIONS

My writing explores the intersections of psychoanalysis, cultural inheritance, dreams and the complexities of human relationships. Across scholarly publications and personal essays, I engage questions of belonging, intergenerational experience, and the ways our histories shape our psychic lives


SELECTED PUBLICATIONS

‘The Psychoanalytic Space’
Psychoanalytic Inquiry
August 2026

‘My Mother’s Haiti, Redux’
Psychoanalytic Dialogues
Volume 35, 2025 – Issue 3; June 2025

‘A Haitian, a Korean and a Mixed-Race Black Brit Walk into a Bar’
Psychoanalytic Dialogues
Volume 35, 2025 – Issue 3; June 2025

‘My Mother’s Haiti’
ROOM: A Sketchbook for Analytic Action
February 2024

‘New Voices: ‘The Mere Existence of ‘et al.’
Division 39, APA, ‘The Psychoanalytic Activist’
IX Psychoanalysis for Social Responsibility Online Newsletter
May 2021

‘The Triple Entendre’
Psychoanalytic Dialogues
Volume 31, 2021 – Issue 1; March 2021
NIP: Educator’s Award Recipient
June 2020

‘The Parable of the Sower’
Division 39 Candidates Outreach Committee Essay Contest Runner Up for 2020
November 2020

Personal Essay – ‘The Parable of the Sower’
NIP Newsletter Issue 1, Volume 5
November 2020

PAST SPEAKING EVENTS

My speaking engagements reflect an ongoing dialogue with psychoanalytic theory, clinical practice, and the cultural and relational dimensions of human experience. Through conferences, panel discussions, and conversations with colleagues, I explore questions of subjectivity, belonging, and the evolving possibilities of psychoanalytic thought


NIP 2026 Annual Conference
‘O Sibling, Where Art Thou: Searching the Shadowy Terrain of Sibling Bonds and Horizontal Relationships’
Presenters: Shari Appollon, Johanna Dobrich & Cynthia Medalie
Moderator: Allison Katz
May 2nd, 2026

Voices from ROOM: A Podcast for Analytic Action
Episode 54: ‘Close to Home’
Presenter: Shari Appollon
Hosts: Isaac Slone & Aneta Stojnić
May 2026

Institute for Contemporary Psychoanalysis
Home is a Foreign Place: Immigrant Journeys
Presenters: Lilly Pavlinovic & Shari Appollon
Discussant: Samanta Batra Mehta, MS
April 25th, 2025

IARPP 2024 Conference – Merida
‘Intergenerational Trauma and Spatial Dislocation: A Psychoanalytic Exploration of Home’
Presenters: Shari Appollon & Gillian Swanson
Interlocuter: Juliet Heeg
June 20th, 2024

ROOM 2.24 Roundtable
Speakers: Shari Appollon, Ann Augustine & Jill Salberg
April 6th, 2024

The Relational Revolution in Psychoanalysis and Psychotherapy Book Launch
Author: Dr. Steven Kuchuck
Speakers: Caryn Sherman Meyer, Margaret Black Mitchell, Shari Appollon, Hillary Grill & Christina Wipf Perry
May 2nd, 2021

APA Division 39 2020 Spring Meeting
Roundtable: ‘Reckoning Psychoanalytic Training's Relationship with Human Diversity’
Speakers: Shari Appollon, Nancy McWilliams, Molly Merson, Ashland Thompson
Moderator: Adam Hinshaw
March 12th, 2021

IARPP Online Symposium
Working in the Midst of the COVID19 Crisis: What Can Relational Psychoanalysis Offer?
“The ‘Ethical Unknown’ within the Self and its Revelation through a Global Crisis”
Presenter: Margaret Crastnopol
Interlocuter & Discussant: Shari Appollon & Maria Tammone
January 9th, 2021

Stephen Mitchell Relational Study Center: Sunday Brunch Colloquium
‘Unconscious Communication & Dissociation’
Presenter: Shari Appollon
Discussants: Anthony Bass & Kathleen Pogue White
September 27th, 2020